I am currently in a very difficult situation in my personal life. One that I would rather not fully disclose but this is the most conflict that I have had in my life.
Instead of communicating about it I want to just leave the situation altogether. I would rather not discuss it. I am not interested in stepping into the shes of the opposing party. I do not want to fix it.
Essentially the basis of the conflict is dishonesty.
My logic is, why to continue to communicate when the person you are communicating cannot and will not be honest with you.
All other person wants me to do is to talk to them. That is where I have decided to compromise. I will listen, and I will talk.
I am not in a space to put myself in their shoes. I do not care to be in their shows.
The level of conflict here is irreparable at this point. For me more so than it is for them.
There are no other solutions. I could come from a more compassionate place, but I do not want to instead of NVC, my perfect is to not communicate at all.
My question is, what is the best thing to do when you get to this point? When is it okay to agree to disagree and just walk away?
Haleema,
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